There is this trope that is very prevalent in popular culture, it’s the notion that talking during sex is not really important, what really matters is the ‘action’.
Of course, actual sex is the main course of the ‘sex meal’, but like the experience around a meal—the cutlery, the quality of the service, …, the main course and the dessert all combine to elevate the overall quality of the meal, so does sexual talk elevate the quality of a sexual experience.
If you’re curious to explore the top five things men want to hear from their woman in the bedroom, stick around.
He wants to hear you tell him what to do.
Every man takes pride in sexually satisfying his woman. Women know this all too well, that’s exactly the reason a lot of women fake orgasms and moans. These days men know that the best way to know how to satisfy ‘her’ is to hear from her.
Whether he is bold enough to ask you to tell him or not, he wants to hear you tell him what you want.
He wants to hear you call him “Daddy”
There’s no logic to this—nothing deep. Men just like it when you call them daddy–It’s intoxicating!
He wants to hear you moan
This stems from his desire to satisfy you in bed. Moaning is many times the natural response to sexual pleasure for women — Feedback that he’s doing the right thing.
He wants to hear you compliment him
Contrary to the prevailing trope, men enjoy receiving compliments. Much more than women, because compared to women, men on average receive compliments less often than women.
Men want to hear you tell them how sexy they are, how much you care about them, he wants to hear you tell him how well he is ‘doing’ you.
He wants to hear you call his name
The title of Calvin Harris’ 2012 Hit “Call my name” is a top-tier desire for most men. Whether it’s you screaming his name in between thrusts or sonorously combining his name with moans or adding his name to compliments. He wants you to CALL HIS NAME!